Monday, August 30, 2010

Whatever your ambitions in life I can show you a two step way to achieve it.

So the first step for achieving our ambitions is to know, understand and become our true self. The next step is to define your ambitions by your true self and then learn the ropes of how to achieve this ambition.
Millions of people want to be free of their slavery to their run away emotions and don't know what they need to do. They go to the experts. They read self help books and even go to self help seminars. All of these suggest a 7 to 9 step program. These program do help but they leave the emotional brain garbage ( EBG ) in the brain. Even there are books and seminars that try to teach you self mastery but their focus again is on anything but the removal of your EBG.

One of the factors is that basic human nature is considered part of our genes and so all our vices are considered to be fixed and cannot be removed from our nature. Thus even those parts of our character traits that are generated by our EBG are considered to be unremoveable. So we are taught how to control and manage these unwanted charter traits. But managing our bad charter traits means a struggle, because the main cause; the EBG keeps churning out its own agenda. It is like a wild animal. Even if it is caged it still has to be fed and watched over.

'Detach from fixed ideas and preconceptions. And face what is to be your lot.' -Sheikh Abu-Said Ibn Abi-Khair

The most important factor in your life is the quality of your very own emotional and physical health. All your successes are dependent on the quality of your behavior. And the quality of your behavior is dependent on the quality of your emotional intelligence and your regular intelligence. The quality of your regular intelligence is dependent on how much time you gave to learn the ropes of life of any and all given life situations of interest to you. And the quality of your emotional intelligence is dependent on how well you have actualized your own real self. How free you are of your self image and how selfless your being is. Your self image is your phony self that you think and feel is you. It has its own agenda. It has its own idea of how much your time is worth.

Especially in America we have a trophy self image. So we expect to have a trophy life, including a trophy spouse, a trophy house, boat etc. And as the self image considers its self as the best if some one in the neighborhood has a bigger house or has a vacation home as well then then our trophy self image makes us feel inadequate. Thus our ambitions as well as our standards for happiness are all dictated by our self image.
As far as ambitions are concerned there are two important aspects to be noted. One is the quality of the ambition for ambition can come from any of the four levels of the mind. And the quality of happiness is dependent on this factor.

The problem arises because our genuine self is unknown to us so our real ambitions are unknown to us. Our ambitions are phony dictated by our phony self image. This is the reason when many times we achieve our self image's dreams and yet we do not feel genuinely happy. Because we achieve the phony self image's agenda and not our true agenda.

Our true agenda is always directed by our true selfless self which is not only realistic, it has a much lower threshold for satisfaction.

The root of almost all evil is our self image. The question is how do we become our true self, how to get rid of our self image? By making our brain squeaky clean, clear of all Emotional Brain Garbage ( EBG )
through Total Brain/Mind Intelligence Therapy.

So the first step for achieving our ambitions is to know, understand and become our true self. The next step is to define your ambitions by your true self and then learn the ropes of how to achieve this ambition.

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