How love can remain fresh through the years.

Learn the trick of keeping the innitial excitment of falling in love fresh.
Love needs constant attention. That is it's nature. It feeds on new excitments. So when the same image registers again and again on the mind the mind gets bored and the brain picks up the image. So instead of the mind guiding the relationship the brain becomes incharge of the love equation. The relationship plunges from +2 to a lower level. The trick is to develop a zero image of your partner. Yes this can be done.

When people fall in love they discover and perceive a new person in the present. They are totaly engrossed in the present and life at this moment is very exciting.They behave in a natural, original and happy manner. Enthusiasm stemming from love at first sight is due to the person being excited by a new face, a new ambiance, a new and exciting opportunity of a new life and a new relationship. The mind has no fixed image and it is trying to figure out who and what this new person is. The mind is excited to know the new person. Over time both develop an image of each other and as time passes this image becomes more and more ingrained into the brain. As a result the feeligs for each other stem more and more from the brain, letting the love action turn into a similar pattern. There is no new expectation. No new enthusiasm. No new excitement. Unlike when two lovers meet for the first time, now they already have gone through the proccess many times. So the mind gets used to the lover's company. It lets the brain take over the love action so instead of action love becomes a reaction. As I have been saying the brain is -2, -1 and +1. The mind is +2. As the couple's relationship becomes a -2, -1 or +1 relationship. The relationship sinks from the +2 mind to the lower powered brain. Thus the relationship becomes stale and degenerates to a lower quality. So what is the soloution? Learn to develop a zero image of your partner. A zero image of a loved one, of ones collegues, neighbours is a one way ticket to an ever fresh and new relationship! Having a zero image of your lover gaurantees a +2 level love relationship.