Monday, August 30, 2010

HOW TO MAKE YOUR CHILD A LIFE LONG LEARNER; HOW TO BOND HIM WITH READING VERY EARLY ON.

Champion's upbringing. Life's first lesson.
Bond your child with wisdom before she bonds with walking. The most critical stage of mind development is the tiny tot's bonding with his own self. His bonding with life itself. His bonding with wisdom. This can be done consciously and wisdom can be deliberately bonded with the child's brain at that critical stage when the cornerstone of the foundation of the child's personality is being put up. This monumental for ever +2 life changing bonding requires only a few steps.

In the beginning of your child's post natal life give your child all the love, warmth and security you can give. At this early stage he still has feelings of omnipresence and he feels that you are his own self so all the love he experiences through you he develops for his own self. At this stage you must give him tons of love and attention so that he bonds with his own self image in a healthy and loving way. This is the most important bonding he will need to get ready to go on the path of becoming wise.

The next most important bonding is to bond your child with learning. Bond your child with learning just like Tiger Woods dad bonded Tiger with golf. Usually parents have started reading story books to their tiny tots from early on. You must read to him just about when he begins to hold things in his hand. Make sure that he watches you reading. Only after reading a few pages trick him into believing that a lolly pop came out of the book. Give him the lolly pop or some other toy that he can play with. He will be tricked into beleving that the book reading produces the goodies. This will bond him to reading for life. The trick is to bond him to reading before he bonds with walking.

Notice how children begin to point to goodies that they want and cannot walk to get. Before they can walk or crawl they point to stuff they want. They desperately want to walk. They cannot wait to crawl to their longings. One of the biggest thrills of their life is when they can start to crawl to their favorite toy or food. Walking is an exceptionally happy experience for them. Even as adults we never loose our bonding with walking.

Imagine Tiger as a tinny tot just months old watching his dad play golf. In fact I bet Tiger bonded with golf before he bonded with walking! So imagine Tiger's pleasure when he could himself play golf. So if you want to make your child a champion make sure he bonds with the game of your choice before he bonds with walking. So start with your child early just like Tiger's dad did.

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