Emotional Intelligence = An Emotionally Squeaky Clean and Healthy Brain with No Emotional Baggage/Garbage.

Emotional intelligence is a function of the brain's physical and emotional quality.
After thousands of papers and dozens of books on the importance of emotional intelligence there is still no serious effort on the part of main stream education to make efforts to create a new compulsory subject that teaches emotional intelligence. Emotional intelligence is still considered a quality trait that either one is born with and/or one acquires through one's upbringing. Or one acquires it through experience. Emotional intelligence is a function of the brain. The better the quality of the nurturing environment the brain is exposed to the better the essence of the brain and the more healthy one's emotional intelligence. Thus to create emotionally intelligent people on will one will have to create education that improves the quality of the physical brain. Top class +2 super mature emotional intelligence is possible totally dependent on the very quality of the brain.
The best and most natural way is to lay the ground work for a very strong physical foundation for the very healthy development of the brain.The preparation must start much before conception. Both parents must make sure that their sperm and egg is in top physical shape. They must avoid smoking and drugs. Even dependence on prescription medicine. Especially the mother must be very careful during pregnancy. Education must begin during the fetus life. Once the fetus is 6/7 months old. Soft music can be played and loud noise must be avoided at all costs; the mother must avoid all concerts etc. In later stages of pregnancies long road trips must be avoided because even low frequency jerks can have a detrimental affect.

The mother knows when the fetus is moving/active in the womb. At this time gentle massage will do wonders for the long time brain health of the fetus. Just like a hug conveys a feeling of love, warmth and security to a child. A gentle squeeze of the womb will make the fetus feel extra pleasure. And will force the fetus to consciously absorb the extra pleasure. So one can and should exercise the brain even before birth.

At birth the room temperature must be similar to the womb temperature. The temperature must be lowered only gradually over several weeks. At least the child must be kept in warm clothes 24/7. For futher reading please read my knols 'Wisdom Bonding', 'Wisdom of Champions' and 'The Key to Wisdom'.

The main purpose of this knol is to wake up the world of education to the fact that emotional intelligence education is mostly a healthy upbringing of the brain. The very essence of emotional intelligence is the core physical nature of the brain. The very material that the brain is made of. The very way the brain is nurtured and developed.

Top level +2 super mature emotional intelligence is one's best humanly possible consciousness. Top consciousness is top emotional intelligence. And consciousness is a process that is created by actual physical activity in the brain. How capable the brain is in creating this process of consciousness depends on the brains physically developed capacity. How emotionally intelligent one is depends fully on what quality of consciousness the brain is capable of producing. In other words the very essence of the 'I' in me, the 'You' in 'You' is dependent on the emotionally and physically developed brain.

The very nature of the self is dependent on the very nature of the brain's developed capacity. A -2 quality brain will for all practical purposes produce a self that is hidden under the cloak of a -2 self image. A -1 quality brain will produce a -1 self image. A +1 brain will produce a +1 self image. A +2 brain will produce a +2 real self. A +2 self is actualized by a +2 brain. The real self is selfless and is fully in tune with Mother Nature, fully +2 conscious and +2 super mature in emotional intelligence.

Main stream education will have to focus on developing lessons and exercises that strengthen and make the brain as healthy as humanly possible. The internet is full of sites teaching very good brain strengthening exercises.

However the problem for most is the thwarted brain development due to unhealthy upbringing. Due to a less than nurturing exposure of the brain. As a result the brain takes on emotional baggage/garbage. Thus those who are stuck at a lower brain level for them emotional intelligence education is cleaning the brain of all past emotional baggage.