Wednesday, August 25, 2010

How love can remain fresh through the years: learn the trick of keeping the initial excitement of falling in love fresh.

The key to creating everlasting love, friendships and more: How to keep your love as fresh as when you first fell in love.
Love needs constant attention. That is it's nature. It feeds on new excitements. So when the same image registers again and again on the mind the mind gets bored and the brain picks up the image. So instead of the mind guiding the relationship the brain becomes in charge of the love equation. The relationship plunges from +2 to a lower level. The trick is to develop a zero image of your partner. Yes this can be done

When people fall in love they discover and perceive a new person in the present. They are totally engrossed in the present and life at this moment is very exciting.They behave in a natural, original and happy manner. Enthusiasm stemming from love at first sight is due to the person being excited by a new face, a new ambiance, a new and exciting opportunity of a new life and a new relationship. The mind has no fixed image and it is trying to figure out who and what this new person is. The mind is excited to know the new person. Over time both develop an image of each other and as time passes this image becomes more and more ingrained into the brain. As a result the feelings for each other stem more and more from the brain, letting the love action turn into a similar pattern. There is no new expectation. No new enthusiasm. No new excitement. Unlike when two lovers meet for the first time, now they already have gone through the process many times. So the mind gets used to the lover's company. It lets the brain take over the love action so instead of action love becomes a reaction. As I have been saying the brain is -2, -1 and +1. The mind is +2. As the couple's relationship becomes a -2, -1 or +1 relationship. The relationship sinks from the +2 mind to the lower powered brain. Thus the relationship becomes stale and degenerates to a lower quality. So what is the solution? Learn to develop a zero image of your partner. A zero image of a loved one, of ones colleagues, neighbors is a one way ticket to an ever fresh and new relationship! Having a zero image of your lover guarantees a +2 level love relationship.It helps you to live in the now thus creating eternal time; where you will be focused on nurturing your love relationship effortlessly.

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