A complete mind model.

We must take into account the role that 'omnipotence transference' plays in our lives.
'You can if you think you can' is essential for success but not enough to succeed. One needs to learn the ropes of life to succeed.

You know that there is a serious problem in the mind sciences when Steven Pinker, in his ground breaking, cutting edge book, ‘How the mind works’, does not even mention the most important first stage of the mind, not even once in his 660 page book. he does not mention the feelings of omnipotence that we all feel at birth, that continue to exercise a varying degree of control throughout our lives not only on individuals but also on groups and countries.
The first stage of the mind is the most important. We know that the human mind works in images. It is said that (for adults) the first impression is the last impression. Imagine the: first long term impressions of womb-reality (the womb environment) on the fetus’ conscious mind. No wonder the child at birth is born with a womb-conditioned mind (where womb- conditioning is the process of learning created by the womb environment). In the womb a normal fetus is exposed to experiences of love, warmth and security, a constant positive feedback, which results in feelings of omnipotence. The assumption in the scientific community is that these feeling of omnipotence at birth are natural and as these feelings go deeper and deeper into the unconscious they fall off the radar screen. Omnipotence feelings continue to play a major role in our lives not least because we indulge in ‘omnipotence transference’ as in ‘I am not the best but my child will be’ and even more dangerously as in ‘I am not omnipotent but my cause is, my country is’, etc.
No matter how close we come to explaining the basic core nature of the mind there always is this feeling that there is something missing. Indeed the first stage of the mind is missing from our radar screen. This affects all the mind sciences not least the crises in emotional intelligence education. How can we build an effective emotional intelligence education unless we find ways to know, understand, overcome and master the first stage of the mind? We must address this monumental problem by creating a full mind model by adding the research of the premature emotional mind. We have no option, we can continue to ignore the affects/effects of womb-conditioning and our emotional mind model will remain insufficient to build any viable mind model.
By our current mind model our understanding of our self is incomplete. This creates its own enormous problems. As we cannot fully describe the self how can we know, understand and become our true sell? All universities know that the holy grail of education is self mastery yet they stay away from even researching it let alone teach it. This is because under the present mind model it is impossible to define the self within the paradigm of science. As a result mainstream education stays away from teaching the super mature mind level as the super mature mind level involves teaching about the self. Ignoring the premature and super mature mind stages has resulted in the current mess in the world. This ignorance affects/effects everything. Let’s see how it shows up in America that has the most advanced cutting edge education in the world. We brain wash our kids into believing that they are the best instead of building up their real confidence by making them learn the ropes. As a result our kids grow up feeling more confident than what they are capable of. We set them up for depression and constant running for more and more. We teach our kids ‘You can if you think you can’. ‘You can if you think you can’ is essential but not enough to succeed. Look at how Tiger Woods dad taught Tiger to become a true champion by exact and focused practice, practice, practice and more practice. We brain wash our kids with a false overconfidence because our repressed feelings of omnipotence have sway over our minds compelling us to realize our omnipotence in our kids. Learned confidence is the only real confidence.
Again it was widely reported that positive thinking is good. Indeed positive thinking is better than negative thinking however actual-reality thinking is the only scientific and appropriate thinking that produces the best possible results. Its like researching, you want to know the exact factors and properties. Positive thinking is essential for any task yet in order to succeed you must know the ropes involved. Positive thinking on its own will not achieve success. Positive thinking is essential for those who are under confident so that their confidence can come up to their actual potential. Positive thinking for those who are already over confident is more harmful than good. Exact confidence which can also be referred to as zero confidence as in zero overconfidence and zero under confidence is the best. This has practical applications from education to leadership training to making sportsmen more effective.
I have discovered that the qualities of the self that is perceived by a super mature mind and the qualities of a wise person are one and the same. Both these selves are altruistic. So instead of defining the self in traditional non scientific terms we can define the self as that self which is perceived by the super mature mind. So all we need to do is develop our emotional mind to the highest super mature mind level and our true self will emerge automatically.
I did not discover this four part mind model. This was discovered by the first prophet who said ‘know your self. I just found the implications and applications of this profound truth. The applications are so many that we need a whole team to develop and patent all the inventions that come to mind. I also need help in developing some of the domains like .a) ‘LawsOfMotherNature.com’, ‘Blosn.com’ (bottom line of successful nations), ‘OutoftheBoxResearch.com’, ‘SelfMasteryClub.com’ etc. I also need a team to give practical shape to a few franchises like the ‘Brain power club’ (a health club for the mind).
Thanks to pioneers like Daniel Goleman and Deepak Chopra emotional intelligence education is now a mainstream priority. I have been researching this topic for the last 35 years. I want to share my work with one and all. If you are interested in more information please let me know.
With sincere regards,
I am, yours truly, Sajid Ali Khan,

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